Stacy and I became friends when I
moved to Grand Rapids ~12 years ago. We both admit that we found each other
attractive when we met, but we were both involved with other people (and we
both agree that we were immature and ridiculous so I am glad we did not get together then!) So, September 2011, a now
mature and "sane" Stacy and Amy went out on their first date. I
adore her...she makes me laugh till my cheeks hurt and she always makes me feel
safe. But we have very different personalities so we have had our fair share of
arguments (I want to drop kick her in the head sometimes). But, the minute we
began dating I knew she was the person that I wanted to be with as long as I am
here on this earth.
Fast forward to our dream
vacation: Ireland. We were driving from Waterford towards Kinsale and saw a
sign for Mahon Falls--so we stepped off the beaten path and checked it out. It
was the single most beautiful place I had ever seen. I had always craved a
feeling of "serenity" but had never found it...until I was standing
by the waterfall. Stacy had asked me if I was happy and told her that I had
never been happier. She then surprised me with a ring and a promise to love me
forever. (*cue tears)
Our friends caught the whole
thing on camera. The picture of the two of us was after we hiked back to the
car. We both were wind blown and cold but I was giddy and thrilled and happy
and filled with joy. My parents / society taught me at a very early age that I
would never get married. It always made me sad but I just accepted it. Now, for
me, this wedding will be a celebration of love, endurance, and perseverance.
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